TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

            

Most of the time of our life we spend by doing work it may be a job or a business or something else to earn money to fulfill our needs and there is no way out of this. The questions is,

Are you feeling joy in your daily routine life? Do you feel excited to get up early in the morning? How do you feel when you are in your work place? How do you feel when you interact with the people where you work? Did you ever feel that is the thing you are born for? Do you think the future is going to better if you continue it? Do you really think you can pass whole your life in this way?

 These are the questions which comes in the unconscious mind of every person and it make them feel either excited or regretful.

Are you one of them?

Unfortunately most of the People are never satisfied they lost motivation at work, there could be a number of reasons behind it.

About 80 to 90 % people I meet in my life are actually don’t like the work what they do, they are not excited to get up early in the morning because they do work which they don’t want to do. Their work never make them happy and they never think their life is going to be better.

The reason most of the people never achieved their goals or not living the lives they desires is because of the mindset they created for themselves .They involved in such activities which never boost up their level of thinking to achieve their goals.

If you are one of them then you have to rethink and take control of your life.

How to take control of your life

To change the direction of your life where you want to go is not easy .You must be very clear to take any action in your life to change your direction. Your beliefs must be strong enough to consistently follow the new direction of your life, you need a courageous heart and a strong mind which are able to remove all the hurdles come in your path. You must also not worry about the failures you will face because every failure is a next step to success, it are the failures which actually transform you to the new level of understanding.

“I've come to believe that all my past failure and frustration were actually laying the foundation for the understandings that have created the new level of living I now enjoy.”

-Tony Robbins

What should I do?

1.Set your standard  OR  Goal

2.Finding your purpose OR Path

3.Make a decision

4.and be consistent

1.  Set your standard  OR  Goal

First of all you have to set a baseline standard for yourself what you will accept in your life and what not, it will help you in decision making and you will be able to take decision fastly and you don’t have to think every time to take decision for the same moment in life and you must follow it no matter what happens in your life.

If you don’t set your base standard then you'll definitely slip into behaviors and attitudes or a quality of life that's far below what you deserve.

“People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals – that is, goals that do not inspire them.”

-Tony Robbins

2.  Finding your purpose OR Path

When have set your baseline standard or goal now you have to find a path how can you achieve your goals .What makes you feel excited? Think about it, when was the last time you did something which make you feel happy? Think about the moment you want most in your life. Because you can only achieve your goals if you like the journey.

Do you really believe in something that can make you feel excited? Do you believe in something which can’t make you feel bored no matter what the time is, what the people say, what the situation is?

 If you don’t know what you should do then just try different things you can do , just start from small things it gradually boost up your mind to the level where you will be able to do the things you really want to do it will clear your vison  what can make you feel happy .

“You are better off trying something and having it not work and learning from that than not doing anything at all.”

                                              – Mark Zuckerberg

3.  Make a decision

Once you have set your Goal and found a path, the next step is make a decision. Make the decision now that can send you in a new, clear, positive, and powerful direction for growth and happiness. Your life can only be changes when you start to take new congruent and committed decisions. Once you start to take new decisions in your life no matters it works or not, you will definitely feel the difference in your life. You just have to take decisions whatever you can take. Taking too many decisions will improve your decision making process of your mind.

Right decisions that can turn our dreams into reality

And right decisions can only be come after taking too many wrong decision

“Deciding to commit yourself to long-term results rather than short-term fixes is as important as any decision you’ll make in your lifetime.”

-Tony Robbins

4.  Be consistent

Once you took a committed decision the next step is to stay committed with it for long term enough you used all your abilities, all your power, all your efforts   no matter what the situation is. Your consistency depend on your decision, the more strong decision you have taken on your idea more consistent you will be. You need to create a schedule for yourself, set for yourself small easily achievable goals first, in this way you will learn how to be consistent with anything. Your mind will be habitual for staying with something for a long period of mind. 

“The four Cs of making dreams come true: Curiosity, Courage, Consistency, and Confidence.”

— Walt Disney